CaptainErotica: Giving Head Tip #1

Tip 1: Don't let it all go to your head...

When you give head to someone...no matter their gender or yours... an important factor to consider is this:

Usually during head, the Focus or Attention of the giving person is on the mouth, tongue, lips, throat, and often, the hands.

Consider what is going on with the rest of your body and it's energy.

Ask yourself the following:
- How are you holding your posture and how does that impact your ability to excell at your headgiving?

- Are you including the energy of the rest of your body in the head you are giving? Ie Sure you are being present with your head and your mouth etc. but what is going on with your heart while giving oral sex?

I posit that you can,while giving head, reach down into your heart and get some yummy love energy, draw it up and let it flow through your tongue into the genitals of your partner/lover/playmate (PLP)

- How can you creatively include your body in your head? Does moving your torso have any effect on things? Most women know they can rub their breasts against someone during head,,, do most men know they can do it also? What other body parts might come into play while giving head

Also- It's important to keep your focus on the person(s) you are giving head to. It can be easy to just let your attention float off while you go through your practiced routine motions. Great head incorporates FOCUS~ENERGY~INTENTION.

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These are some reflections I offer up to you as part of your process of being a better lover...Remember, we can ALL learn to be better lovers and it is our DUTY to be in service of our PLP. So see if you can give some really fucking over the top amazing incredible head to someone sometime soon... It only helps make the world a better place...